Don't we all.

when i read this the song world of chances came on and made me cry i just wanted to let you know

then you don't have to my Friend is the same way.

I know exactly what you feel.

don't worry, i've never kissed a boy yet.

Then god, I must be beyond worthless because I haven't had my first kiss. :/

So? I've only kissed one person before and I'm 16. It doesn't make you any less of a person. You know how easy it would be to go up to a guy flirt a bit and get him to kiss you? It'd be pretty easy, but there's this little thing I have called "self-respect". Also you don't want to get anything nasty from kissing someone you don't know too well, right?

Really?! Each one of them has kissed 12 people?!

I must be way, waaaaay behind, like, I don't know, living in a morally uptight 18th century Europe.

I didn't know person's value was measured by how many guys/girls they've kissed. Here I was, silly me, thinking people should value me by my education, beliefs and actions.
Thanks for bringing me up to date.

P.S. In case you didn't figure it out from my sarcasm, there's nothing wrong with kissing one person. There's also nothing wrong with kissing 12 people. Unless you're having sex with 12 people. It's about what feels right to you.

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And what's wrong with only kissing one person? It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. There's something wrong with society if you believe that you have to do that to fit in.

Andie is right....... You're not worthless and you also have respect for yourself. Not many people cann say that..... Don't fit in..... Stand out.

Your not worthless at least you have respect yourself.

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Maybe you should take a look at more people other than your friends and decide whether that determines anything about you.

If not kissing 12+ guys is the only thing making you feel worthless, then believe me, you don't have much to worry about at all.

I haven't even held a boy's HAND! How worthless do you think I must feel on a day-to-day basis???

Just GET. OVER. IT.
Be real. Did they ALL kiss 12 guys? Unless you have very few friends I think you're exaggerating a bit.

If you and your friends measure your worth in how many people you have kissed, you all need to seriously rethink your lives.

If all of your friends have kissed exactly 12 people, I think it's much more likely that they have issues than that you do. It's not a freaking contest.

i call it "self-respect"

Since when is worthlessness measured by the number of guys you have or haven't kissed? I've kissed "only" two guys and I don't consider myself worthless.

Or it means your friends are just easy and make out with whoever wants them at the moment. Depending on how old you are, twelve seems like an awful lot. Most of my friends haven't kissed that many people, and we're all in university. There's nothing wrong with not kissing a bunch of different people. You're not worthless, you just have higher standards or attract a different crowd of guys. I obviously can't say which just from this secret.

Try not to let your sense of self worth be dependent on what others think of you. It's much easier said than done, but if you can find value in yourself, you'll be much happier.

They have all kissed exactly 12 people? Where they the same 12 people? Your friends sound strange. Why does the number of guys you kiss even matter? If you find a good guy and end up marrying him you may only kiss one person in your entire life. That doesn't mean you are worth less than someone who kisses a different guy every night. You have very strange standards of worth. If you want to kiss a lot of guys go ahead, if you don't then don't, it really doesn't matter.

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