Reminds me of The Secret Life of Walter Mitty...
I do that to! In my "world" my parents aren't my parents. Now I have a hard time wondering if it's true. I feel like I can't trust anything they say anymore.
I do that to! But like someone just said, make the dreams more un realistic,
Everyone daydreams. If you are really having trouble distinguishing fantasy from reality, try to make you daydreams more unrealistic, or imagine them occurring in the future.
That's my problem... xD I'm not alone!!!!
Happens to me all the time...
What were all your reasons for sleeping with him besides that you both were lonely...?
Wow. You and your English teacher both sound like terrible people. Maybe you actually deserve each other.
She's not a terrible person, but she made a mistake that she can not fix, but saying she's a terrible person isn't solving anything, listen my dear, You made a mistake, but we all do, you have to tell your parents as embarrassing as it is you need to, and you especially need to think about your options.
I never said I solved the problem.
I was just sharing my opinion.
Whoa! Now this is messed up. You can't just justify sleeping with your teacher. I don't care for the reasons, it's still wrong. And you can't blame the whole thing on him, it was your fault too, you also need to deal with the consequences. Takes two to tango, remember?
So, now what? Are you're going to guilt him into staying with you? You expect him to abandon his entire family so he could accommodate your wishes?
Now, don't get me wrong, I'm definitely not defending him, but you just helped destroy a family. And you did it willingly. And now you're going to use baby to guilt him into staying with you. But you have to know that won't work, right? Men hate being trapped. You'll both be endlessly miserable, and the baby will blame it on itself.
By the way, are you a minor? Regardless, he's still your teacher. He will most likely lose his job over this and if you're a minor there's a possibility he could face charges for having sexual intercourse with an underage girl.
You need to really think this through. Talk to him about the baby, DON'T blackmail him. Talk to your parents. And possibly a counselor if you have the opportunity. Make the decision if you're keeping the baby or not, just don't keep it only because it will guilt your teacher into staying by your side. That would be selfish towards the baby. If you can't love the baby, don't keep it, whether that requires adoption or abortion.
Don't act irrationally, what you do now will affect your entire future. Good luck.
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Couldn't have said it better myself!
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would you stop with that already?! It's annoying. And writing your wish on an internet page DOESN'T make it come true!
lol its worked for me! ;)
It really doesn't. Please leave this site, it's irritating to see you posting that damn link everywhere.
haha is true
Yeah, and tooth fairies exist.
Its a gift, so try to make the best of it! Ghosts can't hurt you. Just think of them as pictures or people on a movie screen. They can't even touch you. Sometimes they don't even really know you're there. You can try asking them what they want or just telling them to go away. In the mean time, can you sleep with a bedside lamp on or a flashlight?
I know how you feel, Im a psychic, and have seen many ghosts, but they can't hurt you and its ok to be scared but it gets better
I'm glad I'm not the only one too! When I was seven, I was visited by my twin sister who died in my mother's womb. The same thing happened last year on Mother's Day, except my mom saw her. She said that she looked almost exactly like me except with really long hair.
Why did I read this right before I go to sleep?
I know how you feel. I've always been able to see things. Lately things have been pickign up and I have no idea why.
I'm so glad I'm not the only one....
I know this might sound rude and totally like I don't understand how you feel, but I think that's sort of awesome. Like something from a book! Like in "The Hidden" by Jessica Verday! That's really cool
Seeing can be cool, up until the point where the ghosts try to harm you. Honestly I have had to deal with that before, and believe me when I say there are evil ghosts. I lived in a house once that I could barely sleep in because I was so scared to death by the ghosts that lived there. Sorry if it seems like I am commenting on every comment, it is just rare that I find somebody like me out there.
(First of all, so no one gets confused here, I am the OP. I didn't expect this secret to get through because so many people don't believe in this kind of thing, but when I saw it on the front page I decided I needed to make an account and respond to all of these comments. I posted a more in-depth comment through my DISQUS account, but I know many of the SPARTZ commenters do not read those comments, so here I am.) It's funny that you should mention this, because I have always been a huge reader. Sometimes I'll go looking for books about paranormal topics just so that I can feel some sort of connection to the character(s). And I've never read "The Hidden", so I'll definitely have to check it out! That being said, firewings88 does have a point in that it can be cool to a certain extent until it becomes too real. There is a fine line between fiction and reality, and the reality is that some of these things are just plain terrifying.
I think if they are trying to hurt you they are different from just regular ghosts. Try saying, "BY the power of God go back to where you came from!" very firmly. You can also try burning some sage incense.
Generally just saying Hi and DFTBA and I get this often. It's been ages and ages since any interacted with me. But they are usually there somewhere, in a crowd or while I'm walking around outside. I hardly notice anymore. There have been some very scary moments in the past, and I on't know when or if that will ever happen again. But I think that maybe, as we get older, our own energies tend to settle. We become more...ourselves. The lines between our own spirit and the rest of the world are not quite as blurred, and then maybe we don't act like such a beacon to those who can't be seen or heard by others. Who knows if I am correct, it's just a theory. I hope things get more peaceful for you though.
Hon I see them too. I learned an easy way to keep them away from you at night. Get a pet, any animal (I have a gerbil and a dog) in your room and have them stay with you. Ghosts don't like animals and they will leave you alone. I am not crazy either, and I am lucky because my mom believed me when I told her what I saw. My dad told me to stop making up stories. There are more of us out here and honestly we would love to talk and help you out :D Stick in there darling
wow really ? one time i when to my bestfriend's house he had dog and the dog is really friendly (the dog likes me i when to my bestfriend's house many times) one time was was in my bestfriend's room with the dog and the dog suddenly run under the bed to hide at a corner it kinda creep me out lol
that's not totaly true...i have four dogs and a ghost in my house. he doesn't realy bother us though so we let him go about his business. the best way to get rid of ghosts is to tell them they are not welcome...say it firm and polite and let them know this is your space not theirs.
firewings88 After reading all your comments, I would love to get in touch with you sometime if it's at all possible. It's rare for me to find someone like me, even online. And the animal thing is a great tip. I have a few cats and a dog, and sometimes I do let one of them into my room to sleep with me when I am feeling especially freaked out. It does tend to help, so thank you for that.
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This reminds me of sixth sense, the movie.
I have a question. If you're reading this. How do you know for whom to search when you go to check the obituaries? Do they tell you their name or do you browse all day for pictures? :/
Maybe they look up who previously lived in their house and looks at their pictures? I've done that before. And the town's library may have information about previous tenants in their databases, probably newspaper articles.
See, I didn't think of that, because I had the feeling that she sees the ghosts who die now, you know these days...But I guess that's a possibility too...
Most likely she searches their names. Sometimes they tell you their names and other times it is just like a fact that you somehow know their name. I know I am not explaining it right but in my case I have never come across a ghost who's name I did not know. Very simple to check public records for certain names and find who you are looking for.
^That basically sums it up for me as well. It's hard to explain, really. Sometimes it's something that I just sort of know without really understanding how or why, and other times it's something they tell me. There have also been times when I've gotten little facts (how they died, names of people they knew, etc.) and traced it back to them in that way.
Wow thats crazy. I would say thats a gift but i know it would be hard for me to sleep knowing that. Could you talk to them? (BTW i love the name StarKidnerdfighter :P)
Ur beautiful. U dont need to be hairless to be a beau. You just have to be urself. XD
I understand how hard it can be in that area, I read it can take up to 5 years of hormone treatment to stop facial hair growth alone. Maybe try laser hair removal? It's expensive but it would work really well!
Even girls need to shave every day. I'm a girl, and my brother is a LOT less hairy than I am, because he got my dad's genes and I got my mom's hairy Hispanic genes :P There's no shame in having a lot of body hair. Even after I shave, it still never looks completely smooth like the Photoshopped people on TV. People have hair, and your friends will love you regardless :)
Your beautiful, man or woman, and try waxing, even men do it! It stays away for a month, and i don't know any transgender people but i fully and completely support you!
try waxing. it helps the hair stay away longer :) im sure youll be a beautiful woman!
You should ask a guy out,
I came out in school about a year ago. It took them a while, but people accepted me.
I showed them that I'm not going to try and rape them or flirt with them, and they know that.
And I still haven't found the courage to tell my friend how I feel.
I can handle the stick I would get, but I don't want him to get bullied because of me.
He will never know.
Hey, as an out-of-the-closet individual, let me just say that there's no 'right time' to come out. A lot of people make it out to be something you should do the second you find out you're gay. Sure, it's a really liberating feeling, a good feeling, but circumstances may complicate that. Now isn't always necessarily the best time to go through all that.
Second, if you were to come out at any time, do not ask out a guy friend. That is the surest way to alienate your friend and all your other friends- unless, of course, you have some gay guy friends. Then, who knows? But even so, when you come out, you want people behind you, not necessarily a boyfriend. A thing that may happen if you come out to a few straight friends is them thinking you have a crush on them, which may freak them out a bit. I think that happens to everyone when they first come out. You don't want that fear to be made worse you because you really do have a crush on them.
Crushes on straight friends are tough. But having support is really important for anyone even thinking about coming out, and asking out one of your friends may not be the best way to have it.