What I say and do is all part of me. I do not live my life in a way to please others, I live it to please myself. If others don't like it, I don't care. At the end of the day, I am the only one who has to live with my actions, not you.
But that doesn't make me heartless, I honestly do everything I can to help those I can, even if it's with something as small as listening to their problems.
Anyway, hope this gave you a little insight, au revoir.